The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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Would we recommend it for others? It asked questions like, “Do you have a problem with your partners gambling habits? GreenEyedMoon 8 years ago Wedding: Source for all of the above Truth? Knubbsy-Wubbsy 8 years ago Wedding: We went over questions we disagreed on. That was sort of nice because we were able to take a weekend to just be about us. There were lots of queetions in there and they were divided into sections. August 23, at 4: To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: My future spouse and I have discussed our sacramental marriage commitment to each other under all circumstances.

Email required Address never made public. October Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of quwstions. And in quesgions way will I tolerate their pushing religion on my kids, when we have any.


Sep 03, Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: What did we think coming into it? Email required Address never made public. This really makes my blood boil. You are commenting using your WordPress.

queations The responses are “agree” “disagree” and “unsure. So, after you take the test, our church has you meet with an older married couple to go over some of the things that might need to be discussed between you and your partner. Ours was a scantron-style answer sheet, so they just feed it into the machine.


But the questions weren’t too terrible.

Rather, it is a tool used to help couples identify, discuss and work through important relationship issues before they get married.

Find support, ask questions, swap stories, and follow brides planning real weddings here on Weddingbee. Told us to go over it together ourselves. My future spouse and I are open to having children.

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Fovcus me of new comments via email. I certainly do NOT, but I lied and said yes. I would ask for more help from your church. However, read them carefully, because you may think they are asking one thing, but they are really asking the opposite. The only way I can be foccuss is to be married. Now you have huge conversation points to discuss.

Learn more about our wedding prep here: You are commenting using your Facebook account. So don’t worry, It is basically questions on how both of you feel about your realtionship, what you you think your family feels, finances, sex, parenting. I have them some where.

FOCCUS | Pre-Marriage Inventory Frequently Asked Questions

We’re taking ours next weekend, and I’m curious focfus what’s it like? I can withdraw my consent at any time by unsubscribing. We didn’t lie but had friends who did just because the Catholic Church frowns upon it and they got caught in the lie and felt like big fat idiots when the Deacon called them out on it.

Our kids will have their own choices. He answered the question he thought it was asking, not what it was really asking.


These are the kinds of questions and discussions that you really should be having with your potential mate before before getting married — kids, finances, in-laws, traditions, home expectations. Emphasizing these aspects of the relationship allows a great diversity of patterns and messages to emerge and tailors the inventory not only to the couple, but also to their specific cultural background s and setting.

Not too worried about that part for myself, but I’m really curious what happens when it does!

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Sep 02, Each partner answers separately: We only had to do this for one section. Sign in with facebook.

What do they ask you about?

It gives a unique profile of the couple so that the preparation work can reinforce questoins strengths in the relationship and concentrate discussion or problem solving on the particular challenges the couple may face.

There are some items that are seen as red flags threats of violence, for example. Not a big deal. I would be surprised if all or whatever questions of you and FI’s matched up, but the next steps are you sit down with our priest in our case, I dunno if that’s everywhere but you discuss the questions. My future spouse and I have discussed what roles we expect from each other.

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